Happy Valentine's Day! I'm sure that you & yours are enjoying today in some romantic way together. This year, I'm spending it with the same guy since the summer of 2014, & I wouldn't wanna be with anyone else. I'm sure you're all wondering what we did this year, but this post is for all of the single girls who are probably hating today because they're all alone.
Falling in love with myself & giving myself power & confidence is the best gift that I’ve ever given myself because it made my life so much easier, from being comfortable with myself, to not letting others’ opinions & / or words bother me because my over-the-top ego & high self-esteem won’t allow me to because I’ll always think that I’m better, to not having to be like those embarrassing, insecure psycho girlfriends worrying about where my man is, what he’s doing, & who he’s with every second of every day, etc. My point is, being confident can help you in almost every situation possible, & this Valentine’s Day, you don’t need a lover. Love yourself.
People always ask me where I get my confidence, & I’ve had a variety of inspirations, but my favorite one is a fictional character named Blair Waldorf from a TV show called, "Gossip Girl". It’s silly, but it’s completely true. I grew up watching that TV show for six years, & Blair has never failed me, & I’ve molded myself to be exactly like her through all the years of my adolescent youth. I’m convinced that anyone that can’t be exactly like Blair Waldorf can’t survive. She’s beautiful, smart, manipulative, confident, fashionable, & she’s a mean bitch. In one episode, she ran into her best friend’s boyfriend’s social-climbing little sister, Jenny Humphrey, in the bathroom who was having guy trouble, & Blair said, “Anne Boleyn fell in love, & she got her head chopped off. As a result, her daughter, Elizabeth, vowed to never marry a man. Instead, she fell in love with power, & she married her country.” So if you're not sharing Valentine's Day with a lover this year, then it’s okay. Don’t keep your mind set on boys. Keep your mind focused on school, money, power, goals, & working on a better you. Don’t let a broke boy break your heart. Just get naked, set a rose bath, light some candles, shop online, wear some lace from For Love & Lemons, eat dessert, & play some Amy Winehouse.
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